Books for teen readers about SEX: sexual decision-making, sexual preferences, sexual identity, birth control decisions, abstinence, and personal responsibility. Do these books belong in your library? Decide for yourself!
Thursday, June 13, 2024
Gooseberry
Tuesday, February 27, 2024
Camp Quiltbag
Camp Quiltbag by Nicole Melleby and A.J. Sass
Friday, February 9, 2024
Heartstopper
Heartstopper by Alice Oseman (graphic novel)
Graphix, 9781338617436
Charlie is skinny and gay (he was outed last year, and then bullied as a result). Nick is a big rugby player with a kind heart. They become friends…and then more. There is a lot of confusion as both boys try to sort out what labels they want to claim, and who they will allow to influence them. Their affection grows stronger throughout the story, even when things go completely sideways. Best of all: even when they doubt themselves they are both adorable.
Oseman’s art is friendly and accessible, depicting the emotions of characters beautifully. Be ready to have volume 2 in the series ready to read, because the first book ends on a cliff hanger! Highly recommended for ages 12 to adult.
bullying, cussing, cussing (mild), friendship, gay friends, gender diversity, graphic novel, high school, homophobia, kissing, mental health, off-page intimacy, parents, rainbow+, sports, Star Trek sex, straight friends
Gender Queer
Gender Queer : a memoir by Maia Kobabe
Lion Forge, 9781549304002
In 5th grade, Maia Kobabe, who uses e/em/eir pronouns, had the feeling that everybody else had access to information that e lacked — not an uncommon feeling for 5th graders. This feeling persisted through high school and college, and always seemed to center around gender identity. Maia doesn’t identify as female, but e doesn’t feel like a guy, either. What is e?
There is a lot of controversy over this book, including attacks by politicians, school boards, and parents upset about certain sexual situations and images. Significantly, many of these would-be censors say that they have not read the entire book, and are reacting only to a few select pages and images. Maia’s story is 239 pages long, and taking a few pages out of context destroys the entire purpose of the book: to tell about eir entire journey.
bullying, cussing (mild), diversity, friendship, gay friends, gender diversity, graphic novel, high school, homophobia, kissing, mental health, non-fiction, on-page sex, parents, rainbow+
Fourth Wing
Fourth Wing by Rebecca Yarros
Red Tower Books, 9781649374042
Violet Sorrengail is small, brittle, and well-prepared for the quiet life of a scribe. But after the death of her father, Violet’s mom orders her to change her plans and pass the stringent ordeal to become a dragon rider instead–or die trying. Almost every other cadet in the Quadrant will try to get her to fail (with a few notable exceptions), and a dragon who finds her unsuitable will simply incinerate her.
This book was originally marketed for adult audiences, but teen readers have run away giggling with it. The characters are young adults in their 20’s dealing with teen issues, most especially the task to to define themselves as separate from their parents. Non-binary gender expression and sexual diversity is presented as normal. The on-page, window-shattering sex scenes do not seem to alarm younger readers but might concern their elders.
Action, adventure, magic, intrigue, loyalty and betrayal keep the pages turning. Recommended for ages 14 to adult.
Bullying, cussing, death, dragons, friendship, gender diversity, kissing, magic, off-page intimacy, on-page sex, parents, straight friends, teachers.
Plan A
Plan A by Deb Caletti
Labyrinth Road, 9780593485545
16-year old Ivy is strong, independent, opinionated…and pregnant. She has plans and hopes and dreams for her future, and that future does not involve a child originating from sexual assault.
Unfortunately for Ivy, she lives in contemporary Texas, which has some of the most restrictive women’s health laws in the country. Ivy doesn’t realize that she is pregnant until she has passed the 6-week mark, after which an abortion is illegal in her home state. Fortunately for Ivy, she is not alone: her mother, grandmother, and a host of other women (and men) are willing to prioritize her choices, and so begins what Ivy and her adorable boyfriend Lorenzo call their “abortion road trip love story.”
This book is serious and funny, timeless and timely. It will absolutely be banned and challenged, and should absolutely be available for any reader who wants it–because these choices are important, and stories about these choices are possibly even more important. Highly recommended for ages 14 to adult.
Abortion, birth control, bullying, cussing, diversity, friendship, high school, kissing, parents, pregnancy, rainbow+, religion, sexual assault (on-page), Star Trek sex
Nigeria Jones
Harper Collins Publishers, 9780062888846
16-year-old Nigeria Jones was raised to be a warrior princess, fight against White Supremacy and support the Movement headed by her father, the famous Black separatist Kofi Sankofa. Without her mom’s support, Nigeria questions her own place in her father’s vision, especially when she begins to explore the world on her own and discovers that people don’t always sort into tidy categories.
The narration is instantly engaging, and although the astute reader will predict some of her revelations, Nigeria’s journey is a compelling page-turner. The on-page sex scene is poetic rather than specific. Recommended for ages 12 to adult.
Abortion, bullying, cussing (mild), death, diversity, friendship, gay friends, high school, homophobia, kissing, mental health, on-page sex, parents, pregnancy, racism, teachers.
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