We Need to Talk About Vaginas

We Need to Talk About Vaginas : an important book about vulvas, periods, puberty, and sex!  by Dr. Allison K. Rogers

St. Martin’s Press  9781684492848

A gynecologist explains, examines, and answers questions about female bodies and the changes experienced in the transition from childhood to adulthood.  Topics (in addition to those called out in the title) include: public hair, ovaries, cramps, hymens, masturbation, sexually transmitted diseases, gender identity, and the history of flying vaginas!  The narration is honest and straightforward, using correct medical vocabulary. The illustrations show a variety of differently colored and shaped bodies.  Recommended for age 8 and up.

Birth control, diversity, gender diversity, graphic novel, masturbation, mental health, non-fiction, on-page sex,  parents, pregnancy, rainbow+, sexual assault, teachers

Different for Boys

Different for Boys  by Patrick Ness, illustrations by Tea Bendix

Walker Books, 2023  978-1-5362-2889-2

Anthony (Ant) Stevenson has a lot of questions about sex, but most especially, “at what point is a person not a virgin anymore?”  Is it when they >redacted<?  Or when they’ve >redacted< with >redacted<?  Or >entire sentence redacted<?  

Ant wants to know more…about himself, and about his friends, and about, well, everything.  But it’s hard to learn things when so much is >redacted< – and that’s how this book is written, with big black boxes (which the characters all comment on) obscuring some text the reader will intuit and some that isn’t quite so obvious, even with pictures to help.

Short, quiet, powerful, poetic, and real.  Sex on the page, but it’s >redacted<, of course. Highly recommended for ages 14 to adult.

cussing, friendship, gay friends, high school, homophobia, kissing, masturbation, on-page sex,  parents, rainbow+, redactions, sports, straight friends, teachers

How Not to Fall in Love

 

How Not to Fall in Love  by Jacqueine Firkins

Clarion Books, 9780358467144

After years of watching Bridezillas parade through her mom’s wedding shop, Harper is pretty convinced that “love” is something invented to sell stuff.  She wants nothing to do with it.  This is exactly opposite to the feelings of her neighbor and best friend, Theo, who falls in love on each first date.  The two offer to trade tips:  Theo will help Harper ace the ACT vocabulary test, and Harper will teach Theo how to avoid falling in love.  The vocabulary part goes well.  The rest…not so much.

Predictable but sweet boy-next-door romance made MUCH BETTER because the characters–including supporting characters–engage in honest, heartfelt conversations about self-care, birth control, and what they want (or think they want) from relationships.  Sweet and tactful sexual situations on the page.  

Birth control, friendship, high school, kissing, mental health, neurodivergence, off-page intimacy, on-page sex,  parents, rainbow+, Star Trek sex, straight friends

Plan A

 

Plan A by Deb Caletti

Labyrinth Road, 9780593485545

16-year old Ivy is strong, independent, opinionated…and pregnant.  She has plans and hopes and dreams for her future, and that future does not involve a child originating from sexual assault.  

Unfortunately for Ivy, she lives in contemporary Texas, which has some of the most restrictive women’s health laws in the country.  Ivy doesn’t realize that she is pregnant until she has passed the 6-week mark, after which an abortion is illegal in her home state.  Fortunately for Ivy, she is not alone:  her mother, grandmother, and a host of other women (and men) are willing to prioritize her choices, and so begins what Ivy and her adorable boyfriend Lorenzo call their “abortion road trip love story.”  

This book is serious and funny, timeless and timely.  It will absolutely be banned and challenged, and should absolutely be available for any reader who wants it–because these choices are important, and stories about these choices are possibly even more important. Highly recommended for ages 14 to adult.

Abortion, birth control, bullying, cussing, diversity, friendship, high school, kissing, parents, pregnancy, rainbow+, religion, sexual assault (on-page), Star Trek sex

 

Girl Made of Stars by Ashley Herring Blake

Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 9781328778239

At first, Mara can’t believe it: her friend Hannah has accused Mara’s beloved twin of rape. Mara is torn between her loving family and her knowledge of her friend’s truthfulness…and her own hidden truth.

The fallout from Hannah’s accusation initially overshadows the sexual trauma Mara herself secretly endured a few years ago. Later, the two incidents seem to balance in awfulness, because as Mara–and everyone else–knows, people don’t believe girls. However, as Mara – and the author – point out, even when bad acts go unpunished, girls will survive and learn to hope and love and go on.

Gentle, powerful, and awesome. This book not only outlines the need for empowerment, but even shows on the page how consent between people works. Highly recommended for ages 12 to adult.

Bullying, cussing, diversity, friendship, gay friends, gender diversity, high school, homophobia, kissing, mental health, neurodivergence, off-page intimacy, parents, rainbow+, sexual assault, sexual situations, straight friends, teachers.

Nigeria Jones

Nigeria Jones by Ibi Zoboi
Harper Collins Publishers, 9780062888846

16-year-old Nigeria Jones was raised to be a warrior princess, fight against White Supremacy and support the Movement headed by her father, the famous Black separatist Kofi Sankofa. Without her mom’s support, Nigeria questions her own place in her father’s vision, especially when she begins to explore the world on her own and discovers that people don’t always sort into tidy categories.

The narration is instantly engaging, and although the astute reader will predict some of her revelations, Nigeria’s journey is a compelling page-turner. The on-page sex scene is poetic rather than specific. Recommended for ages 12 to adult.

Abortion, bullying, cussing (mild), death, diversity, friendship, gay friends, high school, homophobia, kissing, mental health, on-page sex, parents, pregnancy, racism, teachers.

Hockey Girl Loves Drama Boy

 

Hockey Girl Loves Drama Boy by Faith Erin Hicks (graphic novel)

First Second, 9781250838728

Alix loves playing hockey so much that she is willing to put up with bullying from the team captain. But after one snide comment too many, Alix’s temper snaps and she punches Lindsay in the face in front of the whole team. Now her recommendation to hockey camp is in jeopardy, her mom is mad, and Alix doesn’t know what to do. Then, she sees “gay drama boy” Ezra (he’s really bi, not gay, this is important) being bullied (by Lindsay’s boyfriend, because real life does work that way) but responding in a healthier way.

So, Alix does what any other other socially awkward, probably spectrum-y person would do: she asks Ezra to teach her to chill out. The resulting friends-to-lovers story is sweet in all the possible ways. Heaps of emotional growth for everyone–except Lindsay, of course. Evocative drawings by the author and plenty of Canadian references. Alix and Ezra hold hands, kiss, and spend a night together in the front seat of a broken-down pickup truck–any sexual activity beyond that is tactfully off-page. Recommended for ages 12 to adult, especially readers who love the stage, hockey games, or both.

Bullying, diversity, friendship, gay friends, graphic novel, high school, homophobia, kissing, mental health, neurodivergence, off-page intimacy, rainbow+, sports, Star Trek sex, straight friends.

Jack of Hearts (and other parts)

 

Jack of Hearts (and other parts) by L.C. Rosen

Jack’s reputation as a slut is only partially deserved. He’s unapologetically gay, and he enjoys sex. He doesn’t want to be in a relationship because he’s having fun going to parties, meeting up with hot people, having (safe) sex with them, and writing a teen sex advice column. But then an anonymous fan becomes a stalker, and things aren’t fun anymore.

Despite multiple starred reviews in industry journals, this book was banned (and then reinstated) in the Kent, WA school district, and also banned in school libraries and classrooms in Maryland, Tennessee, Wisconsin and elsewhere. The advice column includes (very) frank discussions of sex and sexual situations with body parts named and referenced, written by the author in consultation with professional sex educators, and all of the questions (except two which were included to drive the plot) were sourced from actual teens. The writing is fun, empowering, and refreshingly honest. Although I have little in common with these privileged NYC teens I love them with all my heart and absolutely recommend this book for ages 14 to adult.

Bullying, condoms, cussing, diversity, friendship, gay friends, gender diversity, high school, homophobia, kissing, masturbation, mental health, on-page sex, parents, rainbow+, safe sex, sexual assault, straight friends, teachers.

Unexpecting

 

Unexpecting by Jen Bailey

 

Ben Morrison is definitely gay.  He’s also 16 years old, a robotics enthusiast…and about to be a dad.

 

Wait, what?

 

Maxie’s pregnancy is the result of an experiment at science camp, and she just wishes it was all over, but Ben wants to raise the child himself.  With support from his mom, his new stepdad and his longtime crush, Ben puts together a plan to prepare for fatherhood…but even before the baby is born, Ben is exhausted and questioning his choices.

 

This sweet story has many characters to love:  Ben’s best friends, the guy he’s crushed on for years, his mom and his (adorable) stepdad, and even his new boss.  There are a few less-lovable characters (looking at you, Maxie’s parents) but they get very little time on the page.  The end is predictable but still adorable.

 

Recommended for ages 12 and up.

 

Cussing (mild), diversity, friendship, kissing, high school, gay friends, straight friends, off-page intimacy, parents, pregnancy, rainbow+, STEM, neurodivergence.

The Rules and Regulations for Mediating Myths and Magic

The Rules and Regulations for Mediating Myths and Magic.  F. T. Lukens.  Interlude, 2019.   300p.   978-1945053245.

Bridger needs to go to college, but he and his single mom just do not have enough money.  True, he could go to college in town, but if he went out of state, he could begin again as himself, a boy far too interested in Leo, the local football hero.  Where to find a job?  Craigslist?  Bridger finds an ad that advises the applicant to come in through the Blue Door, not the front door.  Bridger finds the blue door around the back, on the attic, with no ladder.  And a girl obviously looking to apply for the job too.

When Bridger makes it in the room, there is no one waiting.  He hears voices, murmurings.

His second day on the job, he meets a werewolf.  And pixies. 

This is jut a really fun novel, the beginning of a series, which finds Bridger as the assistant of an intermediary, Pavel, whose job it is to find “myths” out of place and send them back where they belong.  Bridger must approach a unicorn and ask her to leave.  It’s a good thing he can, because, you know….

Bridger and Pavel must find why the myths are suddenly attracted to Lake Michigan and eliminate the problem before the real world collides with the myth world. 

Bridger’s best friend is Astrid… so grab your Bullfinch’s Mythology and a book on cryptozology, and play along!  If you are in eighth grade, reading Hero Stories, this is for you!

Recommended 14 up

drinking, gay friends, homosexuality, magic, prejudice, sexual questioning, straight friends, vampires, and violence.