Books for teen readers about SEX: sexual decision-making, sexual preferences, sexual identity, birth control decisions, abstinence, and personal responsibility. Do these books belong in your library? Decide for yourself!
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Showing posts with label transgender. Show all posts
Monday, August 29, 2016
If You Could Be Mine
If You Could Be Mine by Sara Farizan
Seventeen-year-old Sahar has shared kisses and romantic dreams of the future with her best friend Nasrin since they were little girls. But modern Iran is a dangerous place for two girls in love. The punishment for homosexuality might be a beating, or it might be death by hanging. So far, their love has stayed secret...but when Nasrin's family arranges a marriage for her, Sahar feels she must act.
Although homosexuality is a crime in Iran, transsexuality is not. In fact, the government will pay for sexual reassignment. Sahar knows she isn't really a man in a woman's body. But, what if this is the only way she can ever be with Nasrin?
This absorbing peek into another culture features a wide cast of well-written characters: Sahar, who loves Nasrin. Nasrin, who loves candy, and Bollywood movies, and pretty clothes, and being the center of attention...and probably also loves Sahar. Sahar's father, who still mourns for his wife and refuses to move forward with his life. Sahar's cousin Ali, a gay man trying to find his place. Ali's friend Parveen, who tries to help Sahar sort things out. And Reza, the doctor engaged to marry Nasrin, who is not as simple and two-dimensional as Sahar might wish.
Kissing, mild cussing, sexual decisionmaking and sexual situations. Recommended for ages 14 to adult.
Wednesday, October 21, 2015
George
George by Alex Gino
Fourth-grader George is a girl.
But when everybody--including her mom, who changed her diapers as a baby--looks at George, they see a boy. It's a problem for George. She knows that there are other girls out there in the world like her, but she doesn't know how she will ever join them.
When her teacher reads Charlotte's Web aloud to the class, George wants more than anything to play the role of Charlotte in the school play, but she isn't even allowed to audition for the part...because she's a boy.
Inspired by the literary character of Charlotte, George and her best friend Kelly take action that will change George's life forever...hopefully, for better.
Publishing this book as a middle-grade story that clearly skews towards a young readership allows it forgiveness for the unrealistically large number of unreasonably reasonable people portrayed in it. Writers and storytellers know that younger audiences practically require a Very Happy Ending; however, very good writers and storytellers can provide that ending while simultaneously providing the seeds of knowledge about difficulties the characters may face after the last page. Alex Gino pulls off the trick very nicely.
George is a sweet book, and readers will rejoice at the end of the story, even though they know that the main character's struggles are not nearly over.
Labels:
bullying,
friendship,
guys,
LGBTQ,
no cussing,
no drugs,
no kissing,
no sex,
parents,
prejudice,
transgender
Tuesday, August 25, 2015
Beautiful Music for Ugly Children
Beautiful Music for Ugly Children by Kirstin Cronn-Mills
Gabe was born Elizabeth, but he has always known that (physical characteristics to the contrary) he's a guy.
While still in high school, he came out to his family and to his best friend Paige. Now, he's ready to graduate and get on with his life: leave town, move to the city where nobody knows "Liz," get a job in the music industry, and leave all his problems behind him.
Funny how that doesn't quite work out.
This is one of those Important Issue Books(™): Gabe is still in transition, and not everyone accepts that. His parents say they do, but they still call him "Liz" and pretend he's a girl. Some of the faithful fans of his radio show "Beautiful Music for Ugly Children" turn against him when they find out he was born female. And a few people in town have violent intentions.
Will this book be informative, comforting and helpful to transgender teens and their friends and family? Yes, definitely.
Is this a great book that will stand the test of time? No, probably not. The plot is contrived, and several of the characters (mostly the haters) are two-dimensional and moved without motive. Paige and Gabe's musical mentor John are well-developed, although credibility is stretched by the coincidence of having the first DJ to ever play an Elvis Presley single on the radio (who also happens to own Elvis' very first guitar) living right next door to a kid who loves Elvis.
Do I recommend this as a first purchase for library collections? Yes, I do. Mostly because there isn't much like it available right now, and the kids (and adults) who need it do not need to wait several years while the genre matures and improves.
Buy it in paperback, recommend it to teens, and keep your eyes open for more books on this topic.
Because surely there will be more.
Labels:
bullying,
cussing (mild),
fighting,
friendship,
guys,
high school,
kissing,
LGBTQ,
parents,
rock and roll,
some blood,
straight friends,
transgender,
yearning
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
I am J
I am J by Cris Beam
J has always felt misunderstood, and no wonder: his parents think he's a lesbian, his best friend Melissa think he's a girl, and his girlfriend Blue is pretty sure he's gay. But J knows that he is a boy, although he was born female. After doing some Google research, J learns about testosterone shots, and is convinced that taking "T" will fix everything in his life. But even after seeing a psychologist and starting hormone therapy, J learns that, as much as he loves them, the people in his life are still not perfect.
Readers will learn a lot about the lives of transgender teens as J attends a support group, enrolls at a school for transgender teens, and does his best to become a man in a society that isn't quite sure how to define him. The book is obviously issue-driven; however, the convincingly multi-ethnic and gender-diverse characters retrieve it from the "Afterschool Special" pile. Not everyone accepts J as he accepts himself, but there is hope.
Almost squeaky-clean: no cussing, no sex; there is one scene of under-age drinking. References to body parts are polite. Sexual tension does not progress beyond a few exchanged kisses.
Recommended for readers in grades 7 to adult.
Labels:
homosexuality,
multi-ethnic,
no cussing,
no drugs,
no sex,
transgender
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Beauty Queens
Beauty Queens by Libba Bray
When a plane crash-lands on a (supposedly) deserted island, a small group of teenaged beauty pageant contestants are stranded away from parents, television cameras, and a powersupply for the straightening irons. Will they turn all Lord of the Flies? Will the Sparkle Ponies prevail? What will happen to their newfound sense of independence and self-worth when a ship full of faux rock star pirates lands on the island?
Most importantly: what will happen when the television cameras and Corporation representatives reveal themselves in the heroic conclusion?
Satire? Oh, yes. Social commentary? That too. Wickedly hilariously funny? Yes, yes, YES!
HIGHLY recommended for teen girls, and parents of girls, and teachers of girls, and anybody who ever talks to girls (including boys). This book contains sexual situations, GLBTQ characters, feminists, corporation stooges, an insane dictator of a tiny country called ChaCha, and a little bit of cussing.
Also: some really good tips on alternative uses for feminine dipilatory cream.
Labels:
cussing,
lesbians,
satire,
sex,
sexual decisionmaking,
sexual health,
sexual questioning,
transgender
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Feeling Wrong in Your Own Body
Feeling Wrong in Your Own Body: understanding what it means to be transgendered by Jaime A. SebaIn clear, non-emotional terms, this text (and others in the Gallup Guide to Modern Gay Lesbian and Transgender Lifestyle series) outlines the issues, facts, and myths about transgendered persons. Information for the book was gathered from the medical community, the transgendered political community, and from individuals who identify themselves on the specturm of transgender, as well as parents, siblings, and spouses of transgendered people.
With vocabulary defined in context and also in adjacent sidebars, "extra info" boxes of related information, and plenty of quotes from people who deal with the confusion of transgender on a daily basis, this book will be useful for questioners of all ages. Each chapter also contains a bibliography of books and internet resources for further inquiry.
Highly recommended.
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Jumpstart the World
Jumpstart the World by Catherine Ryan Hyde16-year-old Elle's mom doesn't want her at home anymore--in fact, Elle's pretty sure that her mom doesn't want her at all anymore. So now Elle's got an apartment, an ugly cat, and new neighbors of her own, including the married-but-romantically-interesting Frank.
Only, Frank isn't what Elle imagined. Frank is a female-to-male transgendered person. When Elle learns the truth about Frank, she is angry with him...but more importantly, she questions the significance of her crush. Is Elle a lesbian? Or what?
This book is full of people with problems, and it is also full of compassion. Fortunately the characters shine beyond common labels, and even Elle's mom gets a tiny bit of redemption by the end.
No cussing or on-page sex; some underage drinking/drug use; some ice cream gluttony; lots of thought-provoking situations. Recommended for readers ages 16 to adult.
Labels:
drinking,
drugs,
gay friends,
gay-straight alliance,
transgender
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