Books for teen readers about SEX: sexual decision-making, sexual preferences, sexual identity, birth control decisions, abstinence, and personal responsibility. Do these books belong in your library? Decide for yourself!
Thursday, June 13, 2024
Gooseberry
Tuesday, February 27, 2024
Camp Quiltbag
Camp Quiltbag by Nicole Melleby and A.J. Sass
Friday, February 9, 2024
Heartstopper
Heartstopper by Alice Oseman (graphic novel)
Graphix, 9781338617436
Charlie is skinny and gay (he was outed last year, and then bullied as a result). Nick is a big rugby player with a kind heart. They become friends…and then more. There is a lot of confusion as both boys try to sort out what labels they want to claim, and who they will allow to influence them. Their affection grows stronger throughout the story, even when things go completely sideways. Best of all: even when they doubt themselves they are both adorable.
Oseman’s art is friendly and accessible, depicting the emotions of characters beautifully. Be ready to have volume 2 in the series ready to read, because the first book ends on a cliff hanger! Highly recommended for ages 12 to adult.
bullying, cussing, cussing (mild), friendship, gay friends, gender diversity, graphic novel, high school, homophobia, kissing, mental health, off-page intimacy, parents, rainbow+, sports, Star Trek sex, straight friends
Fourth Wing
Fourth Wing by Rebecca Yarros
Red Tower Books, 9781649374042
Violet Sorrengail is small, brittle, and well-prepared for the quiet life of a scribe. But after the death of her father, Violet’s mom orders her to change her plans and pass the stringent ordeal to become a dragon rider instead–or die trying. Almost every other cadet in the Quadrant will try to get her to fail (with a few notable exceptions), and a dragon who finds her unsuitable will simply incinerate her.
This book was originally marketed for adult audiences, but teen readers have run away giggling with it. The characters are young adults in their 20’s dealing with teen issues, most especially the task to to define themselves as separate from their parents. Non-binary gender expression and sexual diversity is presented as normal. The on-page, window-shattering sex scenes do not seem to alarm younger readers but might concern their elders.
Action, adventure, magic, intrigue, loyalty and betrayal keep the pages turning. Recommended for ages 14 to adult.
Bullying, cussing, death, dragons, friendship, gender diversity, kissing, magic, off-page intimacy, on-page sex, parents, straight friends, teachers.
Different for Boys
Different for Boys by Patrick Ness, illustrations by Tea Bendix
Walker Books, 2023 978-1-5362-2889-2
Anthony (Ant) Stevenson has a lot of questions about sex, but most especially, “at what point is a person not a virgin anymore?” Is it when they >redacted<? Or when they’ve >redacted< with >redacted<? Or >entire sentence redacted<?
Ant wants to know more…about himself, and about his friends, and about, well, everything. But it’s hard to learn things when so much is >redacted< – and that’s how this book is written, with big black boxes (which the characters all comment on) obscuring some text the reader will intuit and some that isn’t quite so obvious, even with pictures to help.
Short, quiet, powerful, poetic, and real. Sex on the page, but it’s >redacted<, of course. Highly recommended for ages 14 to adult.
cussing, friendship, gay friends, high school, homophobia, kissing, masturbation, on-page sex, parents, rainbow+, redactions, sports, straight friends, teachers
How Not to Fall in Love
How Not to Fall in Love by Jacqueine Firkins
Clarion Books, 9780358467144
After years of watching Bridezillas parade through her mom’s wedding shop, Harper is pretty convinced that “love” is something invented to sell stuff. She wants nothing to do with it. This is exactly opposite to the feelings of her neighbor and best friend, Theo, who falls in love on each first date. The two offer to trade tips: Theo will help Harper ace the ACT vocabulary test, and Harper will teach Theo how to avoid falling in love. The vocabulary part goes well. The rest…not so much.
Predictable but sweet boy-next-door romance made MUCH BETTER because the characters–including supporting characters–engage in honest, heartfelt conversations about self-care, birth control, and what they want (or think they want) from relationships. Sweet and tactful sexual situations on the page.
Birth control, friendship, high school, kissing, mental health, neurodivergence, off-page intimacy, on-page sex, parents, rainbow+, Star Trek sex, straight friends
Hockey Girl Loves Drama Boy
Tuesday, September 26, 2023
Unexpecting
Unexpecting by Jen Bailey
Ben Morrison is definitely gay. He’s also 16 years old, a robotics enthusiast…and
about to be a dad.
Wait, what?
Maxie’s pregnancy is the result of an experiment at science
camp, and she just wishes it was all over, but Ben wants to raise the child
himself. With support from his mom, his
new stepdad and his longtime crush, Ben puts together a plan to prepare for
fatherhood…but even before the baby is born, Ben is exhausted and questioning
his choices.
This sweet story has many characters to love: Ben’s best friends, the guy he’s crushed on
for years, his mom and his (adorable) stepdad, and even his new boss. There are a few less-lovable characters
(looking at you, Maxie’s parents) but they get very little time on the
page. The end is predictable but still
adorable.
Recommended for ages 12 and up.
Cussing (mild), diversity, friendship, kissing, high school,
gay friends, straight friends, off-page intimacy, parents, pregnancy, rainbow+,
STEM, neurodivergence.





