Books for teen readers about SEX: sexual decision-making, sexual preferences, sexual identity, birth control decisions, abstinence, and personal responsibility. Do these books belong in your library? Decide for yourself!
Thursday, June 13, 2024
Gooseberry
Tuesday, February 27, 2024
Camp Quiltbag
Camp Quiltbag by Nicole Melleby and A.J. Sass
Friday, February 9, 2024
Gender Queer
Gender Queer : a memoir by Maia Kobabe
Lion Forge, 9781549304002
In 5th grade, Maia Kobabe, who uses e/em/eir pronouns, had the feeling that everybody else had access to information that e lacked — not an uncommon feeling for 5th graders. This feeling persisted through high school and college, and always seemed to center around gender identity. Maia doesn’t identify as female, but e doesn’t feel like a guy, either. What is e?
There is a lot of controversy over this book, including attacks by politicians, school boards, and parents upset about certain sexual situations and images. Significantly, many of these would-be censors say that they have not read the entire book, and are reacting only to a few select pages and images. Maia’s story is 239 pages long, and taking a few pages out of context destroys the entire purpose of the book: to tell about eir entire journey.
bullying, cussing (mild), diversity, friendship, gay friends, gender diversity, graphic novel, high school, homophobia, kissing, mental health, non-fiction, on-page sex, parents, rainbow+
We Need to Talk About Vaginas
We Need to Talk About Vaginas : an important book about vulvas, periods, puberty, and sex! by Dr. Allison K. Rogers
St. Martin’s Press 9781684492848
A gynecologist explains, examines, and answers questions about female bodies and the changes experienced in the transition from childhood to adulthood. Topics (in addition to those called out in the title) include: public hair, ovaries, cramps, hymens, masturbation, sexually transmitted diseases, gender identity, and the history of flying vaginas! The narration is honest and straightforward, using correct medical vocabulary. The illustrations show a variety of differently colored and shaped bodies. Recommended for age 8 and up.
Birth control, diversity, gender diversity, graphic novel, masturbation, mental health, non-fiction, on-page sex, parents, pregnancy, rainbow+, sexual assault, teachers
Plan A
Plan A by Deb Caletti
Labyrinth Road, 9780593485545
16-year old Ivy is strong, independent, opinionated…and pregnant. She has plans and hopes and dreams for her future, and that future does not involve a child originating from sexual assault.
Unfortunately for Ivy, she lives in contemporary Texas, which has some of the most restrictive women’s health laws in the country. Ivy doesn’t realize that she is pregnant until she has passed the 6-week mark, after which an abortion is illegal in her home state. Fortunately for Ivy, she is not alone: her mother, grandmother, and a host of other women (and men) are willing to prioritize her choices, and so begins what Ivy and her adorable boyfriend Lorenzo call their “abortion road trip love story.”
This book is serious and funny, timeless and timely. It will absolutely be banned and challenged, and should absolutely be available for any reader who wants it–because these choices are important, and stories about these choices are possibly even more important. Highly recommended for ages 14 to adult.
Abortion, birth control, bullying, cussing, diversity, friendship, high school, kissing, parents, pregnancy, rainbow+, religion, sexual assault (on-page), Star Trek sex
Nigeria Jones
Harper Collins Publishers, 9780062888846
16-year-old Nigeria Jones was raised to be a warrior princess, fight against White Supremacy and support the Movement headed by her father, the famous Black separatist Kofi Sankofa. Without her mom’s support, Nigeria questions her own place in her father’s vision, especially when she begins to explore the world on her own and discovers that people don’t always sort into tidy categories.
The narration is instantly engaging, and although the astute reader will predict some of her revelations, Nigeria’s journey is a compelling page-turner. The on-page sex scene is poetic rather than specific. Recommended for ages 12 to adult.
Abortion, bullying, cussing (mild), death, diversity, friendship, gay friends, high school, homophobia, kissing, mental health, on-page sex, parents, pregnancy, racism, teachers.
Hockey Girl Loves Drama Boy
Tuesday, September 26, 2023
Unexpecting
Unexpecting by Jen Bailey
Ben Morrison is definitely gay. He’s also 16 years old, a robotics enthusiast…and
about to be a dad.
Wait, what?
Maxie’s pregnancy is the result of an experiment at science
camp, and she just wishes it was all over, but Ben wants to raise the child
himself. With support from his mom, his
new stepdad and his longtime crush, Ben puts together a plan to prepare for
fatherhood…but even before the baby is born, Ben is exhausted and questioning
his choices.
This sweet story has many characters to love: Ben’s best friends, the guy he’s crushed on
for years, his mom and his (adorable) stepdad, and even his new boss. There are a few less-lovable characters
(looking at you, Maxie’s parents) but they get very little time on the
page. The end is predictable but still
adorable.
Recommended for ages 12 and up.
Cussing (mild), diversity, friendship, kissing, high school,
gay friends, straight friends, off-page intimacy, parents, pregnancy, rainbow+,
STEM, neurodivergence.