Books for teen readers about SEX: sexual decision-making, sexual preferences, sexual identity, birth control decisions, abstinence, and personal responsibility. Do these books belong in your library? Decide for yourself!
Thursday, June 13, 2024
Gooseberry
Tuesday, February 27, 2024
Camp Quiltbag
Camp Quiltbag by Nicole Melleby and A.J. Sass
Friday, February 9, 2024
Heartstopper
Heartstopper by Alice Oseman (graphic novel)
Graphix, 9781338617436
Charlie is skinny and gay (he was outed last year, and then bullied as a result). Nick is a big rugby player with a kind heart. They become friends…and then more. There is a lot of confusion as both boys try to sort out what labels they want to claim, and who they will allow to influence them. Their affection grows stronger throughout the story, even when things go completely sideways. Best of all: even when they doubt themselves they are both adorable.
Oseman’s art is friendly and accessible, depicting the emotions of characters beautifully. Be ready to have volume 2 in the series ready to read, because the first book ends on a cliff hanger! Highly recommended for ages 12 to adult.
bullying, cussing, cussing (mild), friendship, gay friends, gender diversity, graphic novel, high school, homophobia, kissing, mental health, off-page intimacy, parents, rainbow+, sports, Star Trek sex, straight friends
Gender Queer
Gender Queer : a memoir by Maia Kobabe
Lion Forge, 9781549304002
In 5th grade, Maia Kobabe, who uses e/em/eir pronouns, had the feeling that everybody else had access to information that e lacked — not an uncommon feeling for 5th graders. This feeling persisted through high school and college, and always seemed to center around gender identity. Maia doesn’t identify as female, but e doesn’t feel like a guy, either. What is e?
There is a lot of controversy over this book, including attacks by politicians, school boards, and parents upset about certain sexual situations and images. Significantly, many of these would-be censors say that they have not read the entire book, and are reacting only to a few select pages and images. Maia’s story is 239 pages long, and taking a few pages out of context destroys the entire purpose of the book: to tell about eir entire journey.
bullying, cussing (mild), diversity, friendship, gay friends, gender diversity, graphic novel, high school, homophobia, kissing, mental health, non-fiction, on-page sex, parents, rainbow+
Different for Boys
Different for Boys by Patrick Ness, illustrations by Tea Bendix
Walker Books, 2023 978-1-5362-2889-2
Anthony (Ant) Stevenson has a lot of questions about sex, but most especially, “at what point is a person not a virgin anymore?” Is it when they >redacted<? Or when they’ve >redacted< with >redacted<? Or >entire sentence redacted<?
Ant wants to know more…about himself, and about his friends, and about, well, everything. But it’s hard to learn things when so much is >redacted< – and that’s how this book is written, with big black boxes (which the characters all comment on) obscuring some text the reader will intuit and some that isn’t quite so obvious, even with pictures to help.
Short, quiet, powerful, poetic, and real. Sex on the page, but it’s >redacted<, of course. Highly recommended for ages 14 to adult.
cussing, friendship, gay friends, high school, homophobia, kissing, masturbation, on-page sex, parents, rainbow+, redactions, sports, straight friends, teachers
Nigeria Jones
Harper Collins Publishers, 9780062888846
16-year-old Nigeria Jones was raised to be a warrior princess, fight against White Supremacy and support the Movement headed by her father, the famous Black separatist Kofi Sankofa. Without her mom’s support, Nigeria questions her own place in her father’s vision, especially when she begins to explore the world on her own and discovers that people don’t always sort into tidy categories.
The narration is instantly engaging, and although the astute reader will predict some of her revelations, Nigeria’s journey is a compelling page-turner. The on-page sex scene is poetic rather than specific. Recommended for ages 12 to adult.
Abortion, bullying, cussing (mild), death, diversity, friendship, gay friends, high school, homophobia, kissing, mental health, on-page sex, parents, pregnancy, racism, teachers.
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