Anatomy of a Single Girl by Daria Snadowsky
I always knew I wanted my first time to be with someone I loved and who loved me, which it was…. But shouldn’t I want that for every time?
Dom (Dominique) returns the summer after her first year in college. She has had a bad break up with the boyfriend she thought would be forever. Her first love, first kiss, first sexual experience, and now first breakup. (Anatomy of a boyfriend, 2008) Then she meets a handsome guy- named, appropriately enough, Guy. He wants no part of romance, but does want sex. Duh. Dom is sure that she wants the whole romantic love thing, but sex is fun too. Duh again. What this book really is, is a treatise on safe sex.
Before Dom, a pre-med student, will agree to the “friends with (lots) of benefits thing, she wants to be sure they are both following the right rules. It’s pretty one-sided: Dom tells Guy all the requirements, and he agrees. We don’t see enough discussions of safe sex in teen lit, but this is pretty clinical - like Snadowsky was trying too hard to get the information out. Because it’s couched in Dom’s pre-med background, it is understandable within the plot. Will it be ignored because it is so dry and one-sided?
There are other parts that help get the book through its tough times: Dom’s feelings ring true as an eighteen-year-old, just out of first year college. She alternately loves her parents (she declares that she won the parent lottery) and hates her parents being too restrictive. Her best friend Amy is fun and believable. There is a nice balance between wanting to be a little girl, and wanting to grow up, and lots of frank talk about sex.
Dom’s parents are a hoot. Even Guy is not entirely one-sided. He does care for Dom, and he is honest about just wanting sex, not a relationship. Perhaps he shares a few too many sexual positions with Dom, or maybe just the reader? This is not meant to be a sex manual, but it comes close at times.
But really, as Dom says, shouldn’t ALL her sexual experience be with someone she loves and loves her?